
The voice greeted me gently that morning. Not with urgency. Not with alarm.
“Good morning, sunshine.”
It didn’t ignore the disappointment — the realization that more therapy might be needed, that the cancer story wasn’t finished yet. There was no rush to fix it. Just the reminder: This too shall pass. You will heal.
Then the truth surfaced plainly, without drama.
All good things come when I return to the same three acts:
Write. Pray. Surrender.
Not as a formula. As a posture.
Writing is the act of showing up prepared. Notebook open. Pen ready. Willing to listen. It’s how I meet whatever wants to move through me. Not forcing. Not performing. Just present.
Prayer is connection. Not begging. Not bargaining. Just conversation. I’ve prayed from desperation before — on my knees, asking why, asking for rescue. I’ve learned that kind of prayer keeps me locked in lack. Gratitude opens a different channel. A quieter one.
Prayer doesn’t require religion. It only requires attention. Call the source whatever you want — God, the Universe, the I Am. What matters is opening the line and listening.
And then there is surrender.
Surrender to the process.
Surrender to the source.
Surrender to the idea that I don’t have to be the author of everything — only the instrument.
I let the presence move through me. I let it guide the pen.
As one teacher said, we’re not the writer — we’re the instrument. Another put it even more simply: be ready to take notes.
That’s what I’m doing now.
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Alignment Before Outcome — Gentle Reflection
Notice where effort has crept in where presence would be enough.
What would it feel like to show up today not to fix, prove, or manifest — but simply to listen?
You don’t need the right words.
You don’t need certainty.
You only need to stay.



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